Strangers who share the same memory

One of my biggest fears in life are changes, I always need a plan, even if it’s just a weekend plan. I hate it when something doesn’t go as planned. If you’re supposed to be picked up at 9pm, then pick me up at 9pm. I don’t want to wait another hour until someone picks me up to finally have some drinks, dance the night away and have a great time with your close’s friends. 

It’s been about two years since my very important friendship broke and it’s been a long healing process. It took forever to understand that the time I had with, I’ll keep it a little anonymous and name them here Micky and Minnie, are never going to be the same.

First of all, why do people change? Why do we become a different person when we get older? 

Part one

Minnie

She was a complicated person, we were friends, stopped talking for a while, became friends again, stopped talking and you know. It was like a circle or more like a friendship season. I like to think back on the good times, just enjoying a couple minutes where I thought about how much fun we both had. Even if it was only a simple car drive with some good music on our way to the store, tanning salon or to the bars. The bars and clubs were my favorite part about our friendship, she was my favorite person to go out with. Now that I think about it, she was the driver 99% of the time lol, I loved her for that. I could talk to her about things, I couldn’t talk about with anyone else. She knew what I was going to say, before I even said it and she knew what I needed to hear. Minney had her pros and cons, but the cons turned her image that I had of her to something I don’t miss.

I was her only friend a couple years ago, and she could always count on me. That might be why I don’t understand, she turned her back against me and spread some fake rumors about me to people I don’t even know. What brings someone to talk bad about your only friend? Someone who has always covered her biggest secrets. Why are females so evil sometimes? Is that a trend I missed back in 2017? I don’t remember spreading any lies about my friends, I mean why should someone do that anyways? Is this the new adrenalin rush you get? 

Anyways... I think I kind of knew that this friendship was going to an end one day. There were too many signs in the beginning, like an on-off relationship. Thankfully I’ve never had an on and off relationship, but for sure an on and off friendship with this girl. I don’t miss her, but I do think about the good times, the memories we had in our more than six years of on and off friendship. 

Part two

Micky

You were Minnies husband and my best male friend for sure. 

I never thought girls and boys could be best friends, like how can two different genders be close friends without having any feelings? Well we did. 

I never fell for him and he never fell for me, we became bros very quick. We were classmates and spent our breaks together. We walked together to the bus stop after school and shared a lot of memories. I will never forget the first time I saw you; it was about two years before we were classmates. I was on my way to my, so embarrassing to say it here but my dancing class (Hip Hop) I have no idea where you were driving every Wednesday.

He made me laugh every time we were together. He was definitely the most positive person I’ve ever met. I knew where to go whenever I had a broken heart and I knew who was going to help me if I moved to a new apartment. We had for sure the same personality in two different genders.
Always try to be happy and if I had to cry, he was the one who said, ‘Oh Mel just be happy’’ and there it was – good vibes only – 

We loved to drink some beer in summer, he made me a heart with beer bottles in the morning before he drove to his work. It was one of the funniest surprises I’ve ever had. Still laugh about it… I think it’s not legal to share the other memories, but you know… 

I loved that he was married to Minnie, I hated it when they broke up. Micky was a good person and Minnie could of had the best life, if she didn’t turn into the person she became.
We all promised to be friends forever, but I failed. I know it’s my fault we became strangers. I am disappointed too, we all failed I guess… ‘’No new friends’’ that’s the way we lived for 7 years. But here we are, blocked from each other and will probably never see each other again.

The end of the friendship was more heartbreaking, more than a real relationship. 

He was my rock, my comedian, my bro, and my very best friend. 

Change is not always bad; we grow up and have goals to reach. We are looking for people who complete us. We all fail, but we move on. 

You start seeing yourself from a different perspective, was what I said, ok? Did I do it correctly? I hated change my whole life, but now I’m here, trying to do the best I can, and not looking back. I’m learning from my mistakes and forgiving strangers who were once my best friends. 

‘’ At some point you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. ‘’