Broken generation

Everyone who knows me, knows how much I don’t like the world we live in.Remember back the days where humans didn’t have a cellphone and you had to meet your friends to have a conversation with them.A world where you don’t share what you ate today and where you’re going next month. Where you live your life with your favorite people for the rest of your life and marriage was ‘’until death do us apart’’. What a big promise, a promise you should use once in your lifetime and not every ten years. Sadly that’s the world we live in. My grandparents got married as they were 19 years old and guess what, they are still in love and happy together. My parents who have been married for over 30 years. A couple generations before us, people didn’t give up on each other, they fought for their love and they kept their promise. You learn, grow and fight together. No marriage is always perfect, and I bet my grandparents had their trouble moments too, but they worked through it. I told my husband before we got married, that I want to get married once in my life, I will give him my promise that I stay no matter what we’re going through. I wish our world could go back to the old days, where giving up is not an option. Check out our social life in 2020. Everyone is on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter and whatever kind of social media apps are available in this big messed up world. You don’t even need a dating app anymore, you can check on Facebook who’s single, or even better, in a relationship because hey, maybe if I give someone some attention by liking every picture in less than 2 minutes, you’ll get their attention and, oh bye! You broke a relationship and got who you wanted. How long do you want to stay with your new partner in crime? A year? Six months? Just a couple weeks? Until you find someone else who looks pretty hot on her/his snapchat filter selfie profile picture? That’s how I feel about 2020. Everyone is online and tries their best to be so good looking on their new updated profile, hopefully it gets many likes and comments, so you feel complete and happy. It’s kind of silly to write a post about this because I’m on Facebook and Instagram too, sometimes it’s fun to share some moments online but I really think for a long time before I post anything of my private life because 50% of my ‘’Facebook friends’’ are not here to be happy and excited for me being happy, no they judge and are just nosey. Always confused when somebody texts me why I’m not so active anymore; ‘’Is everything okaaaay?’’ – well, yes it is. I’ll just figure it out for myself and that it’s healthier to be happy and quiet than to prove it to all the friends, stalkers and fakers. People I’m close to know what I’m going to do next month, what I had for dinner and how my family and I are doing. Our world became more permissive and open for everyone. I figured out that I don’t need 20 friends, I’m way happier with my 3 to 5 friends, my husband, son, and my family. That’s all I need and all I want.  

‘’Keep calm and disconnect’’